People who know me well know that I'm one of the most generous people they will ever meet. I give beyond my means, many times, just because I can't bear to see people doing without. But to me, this is an abuse of people's generosity.

If she was being evicted, or needed emergency surgery, or had lost her job and couldn't pay her bills, I'd go out of my way to help as much as I could. But for something of this nature, I can't even believe someone would ask. It's just unimaginable to me.