No idea why, given the amount of Teh Pretteh chatter you give out.
It's possibly based on an assumption of mine, actually - I know many bi girls, and have noticed a tendency towards them preferring girls in their relationships. (Unless they're poly, in which case their primary is usually male. Wierd, huh?)
Given that you're bi (Or I thought you were) and not poly (as far as I know), my assumptions kick in based on observed behaviours of others.
I think I also get the feeling - and here I tread onto thin ice - that you're probably slightly more comfortable in relating with girls than boys. If only because you feel less inhibited by your tomboyish aspects with girls than you would with boys, who you think might not get on so well with that aspect of yourself. (Told you I was headed onto thin ice.)
Anyway, I'm now into the realms of cheap amateur psychoanalysis, and running a great risk of offending the average person. Not that I think you're in any way an average person, but as you can see I now feel the need to qualify every statement I make with carefully couched terms - usually a good sign I should shut the fuck up and stop digging.
No offence intended in anything I've said, and if I need correcting in any assumptions then go straight ahead and bang my bonce as needed!
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on 2006-10-03 12:47 am (UTC)No idea why, given the amount of Teh Pretteh chatter you give out.
It's possibly based on an assumption of mine, actually - I know many bi girls, and have noticed a tendency towards them preferring girls in their relationships. (Unless they're poly, in which case their primary is usually male. Wierd, huh?)
Given that you're bi (Or I thought you were) and not poly (as far as I know), my assumptions kick in based on observed behaviours of others.
I think I also get the feeling - and here I tread onto thin ice - that you're probably slightly more comfortable in relating with girls than boys. If only because you feel less inhibited by your tomboyish aspects with girls than you would with boys, who you think might not get on so well with that aspect of yourself.
(Told you I was headed onto thin ice.)
Anyway, I'm now into the realms of cheap amateur psychoanalysis, and running a great risk of offending the average person. Not that I think you're in any way an average person, but as you can see I now feel the need to qualify every statement I make with carefully couched terms - usually a good sign I should shut the fuck up and stop digging.
No offence intended in anything I've said, and if I need correcting in any assumptions then go straight ahead and bang my bonce as needed!