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Sunday, 20 January 2008 10:43 pm![[personal profile]](https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/silk/identity/user.png)
Okay, I've been wanting to say this for a while, and now is the perfect time to say it.
I'm going to say this once and say it very, very clearly:
I am a fiercely, fiercely loyal person. If you are my friend, I'd give you my last penny and fight to the death for you - until you disappoint me. If you fuck with my friends, you fuck with me. If you show yourself to be something less than I believed you to be - if you are two faced, spineless or prejudiced, or if you side with bullies - I will FUCK. YOU. UP.
I will stand by my friends through anything while they are deserving of it, but I've had a lot of practise at cutting people out of my life and I will do it with no remorse whatsoever if you give me a reason.
I might like you, I may even love some of you (and I do), but I don't need people who choose not to live up to the respect I give them.
I'm going to say this once and say it very, very clearly:
I am a fiercely, fiercely loyal person. If you are my friend, I'd give you my last penny and fight to the death for you - until you disappoint me. If you fuck with my friends, you fuck with me. If you show yourself to be something less than I believed you to be - if you are two faced, spineless or prejudiced, or if you side with bullies - I will FUCK. YOU. UP.
I will stand by my friends through anything while they are deserving of it, but I've had a lot of practise at cutting people out of my life and I will do it with no remorse whatsoever if you give me a reason.
I might like you, I may even love some of you (and I do), but I don't need people who choose not to live up to the respect I give them.
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on 2008-01-20 11:56 pm (UTC)We may not always agree about things - and we don't - but I'm damn happy to consider you among my friends even if we haven't met. I can always handle honesty. It may sometimes take me an hour or so to deal with the degree of "blunt and forthright", but it's INFINITELY better than the backstabbing, laughing assassin alternative. And I've had MORE than my fill of those in the past three years.
*hugs more*
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on 2008-01-21 12:04 am (UTC)I can't think of a time that I've ever said or thought a negative thing about you, or intentionally implied anything of that nature.
You're one of the people I've had around for the longest on the internet - back since the HP days - and while I don't always comment that much, it's more because I can't think of anything I can say or do that is of impact when you've dealt with so fucking much.
I think you're pretty amazing, frankly, and I'm sorry if I've ever said anything in such a way that it would cause you offense. *cuddles*
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on 2008-01-21 12:18 am (UTC)But no. You've never offended me. You just make me Think, and that's never a bad thing. I love your candour. It's a sad thing that I DO ever have to sit back and ponder it because it's becoming increasingly more rare.
It goes without saying but don't you EVER change. Not even in the slightest.
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on 2008-01-21 12:21 am (UTC)But you've handled a lot in the last few years and you've made it. My last three years have been pretty damn easy in comparison.